Kisi ne sahi kaha hai ki zindagi ka safar aasan nahin hai. Is jeevan mein hum kayi jazbaaton ka saamna karte hain- nafrat, mohabbat, sukh, dukh, hasna, rona aadi.. Aur inhi mein se ek hai "naraazgi". Yeh badi hi ziddi hoti hai, ek baar jo haavi ho jaye to isse nijaat paana mushkil ho jaata hai. Hum sabhi apni zindagi mein kayi baar iska saamna karte hain. Kabhie dost se, kabhie mata-pita se, bhai-behen se or kabhie kabhie to khud se bhi naraaz ho jaate hain.
Hazaaron sawaal mann mein daudte rehte hain par jawaab ke naam par hamare paas kuch nahin hota. Kayi baar kisi ki koi baat buri lagti hai to hum us shakhs se naraaz ho jaate hain, ya jab hum khud kisi kaam ke liye apni puri koshish ke baawajood behtar parinaam nahi paate to khud se naraaz hone lagte hain. Lakshya ko paane ki ichcha to rakhte hain par uske liye mehnat karne se katraate hain ya usse bachne ke liye bahaane dhundhte hain, khud se bhaagte hain, paristhitiyon ka saamna karne se darte hain.
Yeh sab to thik hai par sabse zyada bechaini to tab hoti hai jab hum khud se hi naraaz hote hain aur humein pata bhi nahin chal pata ki khud se iss naraazgi ka kaaran kya hai? Aksar soch mein doobe hum wajah talaashne ki koshish karte rehte hain par haasil hoti hai sirf naakaami. Ek ke baad ek sawaalon ki janzeer mein hum ulajhte jaate hain aur kashmakash ka silsila khatm hi nahin hota.
Kahin suna tha ki "kuch sawaalon ke jawaab naa hi mile to achcha hai." Aaj jab dobaara is pankti pe gaur kiya to baat samjh mein aayi. Yeh zindagi hai, utaar -chadaav iska hissa hain aur naraazgi bhi isi mein simti hui hai. Bas humein iss naraazgi ko niraasha nahin banne dena hai. Agar yeh hum kar paate hain to zindagi ki khoobsoorti ko mehsoos karna aasaan hai.
Hazaaron sawaal mann mein daudte rehte hain par jawaab ke naam par hamare paas kuch nahin hota. Kayi baar kisi ki koi baat buri lagti hai to hum us shakhs se naraaz ho jaate hain, ya jab hum khud kisi kaam ke liye apni puri koshish ke baawajood behtar parinaam nahi paate to khud se naraaz hone lagte hain. Lakshya ko paane ki ichcha to rakhte hain par uske liye mehnat karne se katraate hain ya usse bachne ke liye bahaane dhundhte hain, khud se bhaagte hain, paristhitiyon ka saamna karne se darte hain.
Yeh sab to thik hai par sabse zyada bechaini to tab hoti hai jab hum khud se hi naraaz hote hain aur humein pata bhi nahin chal pata ki khud se iss naraazgi ka kaaran kya hai? Aksar soch mein doobe hum wajah talaashne ki koshish karte rehte hain par haasil hoti hai sirf naakaami. Ek ke baad ek sawaalon ki janzeer mein hum ulajhte jaate hain aur kashmakash ka silsila khatm hi nahin hota.
Kahin suna tha ki "kuch sawaalon ke jawaab naa hi mile to achcha hai." Aaj jab dobaara is pankti pe gaur kiya to baat samjh mein aayi. Yeh zindagi hai, utaar -chadaav iska hissa hain aur naraazgi bhi isi mein simti hui hai. Bas humein iss naraazgi ko niraasha nahin banne dena hai. Agar yeh hum kar paate hain to zindagi ki khoobsoorti ko mehsoos karna aasaan hai.
Iss naraazgi mein bhi ek baat hai,
Hasne-rone jaisa yeh bhi ek jazbaat hai..
Jo samajh sako is naraazgi ka andaaz,,
To bayaan karne ko hazaaron mil jaayenge alfaaz...
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